The Friary is a welcoming place to stay for time to pray, study, relax and be with God.  Some guests come as organised groups, often with their own leader and occasionally with talks and guidance from a brother.  Many others come as individuals or with one or two friends.

The Friary is open to guests through the year, apart from short closed periods, usually from Monday to Sunday (we are closed from Sunday lunchtime until Monday morning).  Bookings usually are not accepted for one night only.  The guest rooms are in the main part of the house with use of a pleasantly furnished common room and a spacious library, both with stunning sea views, and guests can also make use of the gardens, a large downstairs sitting room (front hall) and the main chapel and smaller Blessed Sacrament Chapel.  Some rooms are occasionally booked for use by day groups.

Guests usually eat with the brothers in the refectory although it is possible for individuals wishing to remain in silence to have their meals separately.  Meals for the whole household can be kept silent for a retreat group.   Breakfast is self-service, buffet-style, and tea is usually served in the front hall before Evening Prayer, when local friends often attend.   There is a small shop selling cards, booklets and religious goods.

Individual day visitors are able to use the communal rooms unless they are booked for a group, and the chapels and library are generally kept in silence.  We can accommodate groups of up to about 30.  The comfortable seating in the beautiful main chapel provides flexible accommodation during worship which is adjusted to suit the numbers present in the house.

Individual day visitors either bring their own lunch or arrange to join the brothers and other guests for the cooked main meal at lunchtime. We ask day groups to bring their own packed lunch, though cold drinks can be provided, as are tea, coffee and biscuits.

Accessibility

There is wheelchair access to the chapels and other ground floor rooms as well as the terraced garden.  The other public rooms and guest bedrooms are accessible via a lift, and two of the bedrooms and a shower room and toilet are adapted for disabled use.       

Saint Anthony’s Chalet

Separate arrangements exist for the booking and use of this largely self-contained accommodation which represents a recent development in our ministry at the friary and is intended for families or groups from particular situations of need.  Inquiries can be made to the Guardian.

Other things we can offer

There are occasional special events at the friary such as garden open days.

Brothers may be available to spend time with individuals by arrangement for spiritual direction, the Sacrament of Reconciliation, or just to give time to listening and conversation.  Guests and visitors can also often join the brothers in practical work if they wish to do so, which can provide a wonderful opportunity for informal conversation, though brothers also have other commitments.

How to Book

Those hoping to stay as residential guests should address their enquiries to the Guest Brother, and individuals and groups planning a day visit need to contact the Guardian.

Receipt of a completed booking form and a non-returnable booking fee confirms the reservation.

The brothers take turns to cook alongside their other duties.  We are limited in our ability to offer many alternative diets and do not keep specialist food items but we can provide vegetarian, vegan or medically necessary diets (e.g. dairy free) by arrangement.  Guests are asked to make such needs clear when they book and we are not able to cater simply for personal preferences in the sharing of our family meals together.  However, guests often comment favourably on the food served!

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