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Brother Robbie Asaph SSF, RIP
Brother Robbie Asaph SSF died suddenly on Saturday 24
October 1998. He was aged forty-four years and was in the sixth year
of his profession as a Religious. May he rest in peace and rise in
glory.
The text of a sermon preached by Brother Benedict SSF at
Saint Kentigern’s Church, Denniston, Glasgow, at the requiem
mass:
Robbie was not the sort of person you would have thought could
have settled into such a harsh locality as Barrowfield but he was
there for three and a half years. There was a certain eccentric
streak to Robbie, such as his penchant for wearing shorts at all
times! Even on the coldest days he would venture out in those
‘long-shorts’ that hovered just above his knees, much to the
amazement of local folk and not-a-little teasing.
Shortly after his arrival, he was keen to set up a local scout
troop for local kids who were bored with just hanging around the
streets and getting into all sorts of mischief – kids who use
f-swear words in their sentences like we would use commas! He
succeeded in getting them into traditional scout uniforms – whilst
he himself would be in full Baden-Powell outfit (shorts n’all of
course!) and off he would march them down the street in crocodile
line to the scout hut. It took courage, I can tell you. Everything
Robbie did was well-intentioned – if not always well-advised! I
remember the occasion he invited the parents to a Passing Out
parade. The East End of Glasgow has divides along the same lines as
Belfast and some of the kids came from ‘Orange’ backgrounds; and
others were ‘Tims’ whose families had IRA sympathies and a picture
of the Pope hanging on their sitting room walls – and their was a
potentially difficult situation when the Catholic mothers saw the
Union Flag unfurled by Robbie and their sons kissing the flag and
swearing undying allegiance to both Queen and country! I slid down a
little lower on my seat. Well-intentioned? Foolish? Naive? Who knows
– but the scout troop still continues and there have been trips away
and educational visits which have given our kids a wider vision of
life. All credit to him.
Yes, there was something eccentric about Robbie – no more so
perhaps than any one of us here today – but some people only looked
as far as that; it is all they saw and therefore wrote him off.
That’s a pity, because there were other facets to this particular
jewel.
Robbie had a dry wit – and an ability to laugh at himself. He
had a big heart and a concerned nature, especially for kids and the
elderly. He had many winning ways and a lovely child-like
smile.
Robbie was a diabetic who ate, in fact, the most deplorably
unhealthy diet; loving cream cakes, ice-cream and jam tarts. And he
had angina. He was proudly Welsh.
He inherited a love for railways from his father and worked for
British Rail training young men and women who were not high academic
achievers but who were employed and paid by BR under a government
training scheme. He came to SSF with a wealth of knowledge about
railways – about trains and times and tickets – and complaint
procedures! His passion was trains; he kept models of railways in
his room, had an impressive array of peaked railmens’ caps hanging
on his wall and was even loathe to throw away used train tickets.
You could say he was a train fanatic. A perfect day off for Robbie
was to plan a destination and then to see how many trains he could
get on and off on route. On a recent holiday to Poland, his
itinerary covered five foolscap pages, travelling on l36 trains in a
two-week period.
One condolence card we received said: Robbie will be happy in
heaven for Isaiah tells us of God that "His train fills the Temple"!
Robbie had difficult phases during his last couple of years in
Barrowfield. He could ‘lay down the Law’ on issues he felt strongly
about or where he believed an injustice was being done – and as a
consequence he had one or two tiffs – but he weathered the storms
and there was always room for reconciliation. There was never any
malice or ill-intent in whatever he did. One of the local lads who
came regularly to the house, and a real toughie, sent a touching
card: ‘I am sorry for all the bad things I may have said to you, but
I know you can hear me in Heaven, so forgive me, my friend.’ That
speaks volumes.
Robbie had a care for the underprivileged and was a member of
the Diocesan Social Responsibility Committee who valued the fact;
they said ‘he understood at first hand the biting effects of poverty
and all its problems in the community.’ He kept up a flow of
correspondence with a prisoner on death-row in the USA and was
active in writing letters to officials pleading for his life. Robbie
was a loyal friend and many of you here will testify to that. He was
well-liked by and served well both the Episcopal and the
Presbyterian churches in the East End.
But for Robbie, being in SSF was very important – it was
family. Recently he was life-professed at a service attended by
Roman Catholic Sisters, Presbyterian Ministers and Anglican
worthies, by young and elderly folk, by representatives of various
groups to which he belonged – a mixed congregation who had come to
support Robbie and give thanks for his contribution to their
lives.
And on Robbie’s part, he was proud to be part of the SSF –
and to be our brother. I last saw Robbie in August. He was enjoying
his theological studies. He was in fact still wearing shorts! but I
saw a change – he was a man relaxed and so at ease with himself; he
open and warm. I am sure that life profession helped him to feel
accepted and wanted and valued and loved for who he really was –
warts and all. There was a blossoming and it was lovely to see.
Death has now plucked a flower not yet fully opened but full of
potential. And we could only glimpse what might have been.
But death is never the end, never has the victory. I am sure
that Robbie is now in that place where there is no more pain –
neither angina nor diabetes – where every tear is wiped away, with
God in whose love and light this particular flower will come to full
maturity. Goodbye and God bless you, Robbie our brother.
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